Self destruction is made easier when those around the self-destructor attempt to stop the descent by putting feathers underneath and bricks of pressure on top. Many who say that a person must pull themselves up for their own sake are usually not people who suffer from the isolation of free fall and can point to at least one person providing solid footing in life. It’s hard to reverse direction and stop self destruction when hope that something good is waiting for the effort is made of the thinnest ice and threatens to break on a word.